REPOST: You Aren’t A Crutch: You Can’t Save People Who Won’t Save Themselves

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Been wanting to help these kids but they don’t seem they need my help. I tried all things possible and things that they could handle easily. But unfortunately they still won’t help themselves.

No matter who you are or what your situation is, your life is going to be a struggle. Some struggle more than others and in different ways, but in the end, we all struggle to live.

It’s the true reason human beings need each other — because without one another to rely on, most of us wouldn’t make it. Arguably, none of us would. People need other people in their lives, and good people are always willing to help friends in need.

The problem is understanding what will help — and what won’t — can often be difficult. More often than not, a helping hand turns into a crutch. While crutches are sometimes necessary, relying on them for too long weakens you.

Not using your legs for so long only means you’ll find it much harder when you finally have to.

Read more here .

Good read from elite daily 🙂

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Why I don’t use make-up…

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So I’ve been asked a lot lately by friends and families on why I don’t use or put any make up on my face. I’ve been here 23 years and I can really count how many times those brushes and lipsticks touched my face and lips and it’s only twice—wedding day of my cousins and that’s it. I won’t lie, I use lip balm or chap stick and I don’t consider it “make-up” because I use it on purpose and that is to prevent my lips from bleeding from chapping(I peel dry/dead skin from my lips so they bleed, teehee).

It’s hard to explain why I don’t use them rather; I don’t have any explanation to explain at all. Is it really necessary that if you’re a girl you’re supposed to wear make-ups, dresses, be sexy, and be pretty and all? Can a girl just live the life she thinks she deserves without any explanation? You won’t know maybe she’s allergic to make up or something bad happened in the past that made her hate or stop using make up. We will never know. Unless she tells us in a way she finds it comfortable or when she gained your trust. A girl is pretty without any make up on. Beauty is all about love and once you have love inside you—you can see beauty in everything. No matter how ugly the physical appearance is, it doesn’t matter (well unless the person is really ugly and her soul is sold to the devil to do so much evil. Can’t blame you or me for hating that, I guess? #RealTalk #IwontLieAboutThisOne #ImSorry)

Oh and another thing, just because I don’t or I never had a boyfriend doesn’t mean I’m gay or I hate love. Just because I don’t wear sexy or “in” clothing doesn’t mean I’m out of the trend. Just because I wear simple and people call it lame or old-y/granny dresses doesn’t mean I’m so old fashioned. Just because I stay at home almost every day doesn’t mean I’m weird or a man-hater. Just because I love the role of being a mom or me loves doing household chores doesn’t mean I’m too mature, there’s always this immaturity or childish inside us and I have those.

We live life differently. Let’s all keep that in mind. My professor told me that “beautiful for me may not be beautiful for you. Beauty is all about perspective”

So, the answer is this; I want my life to be simple as possible. We live in a complicated world so I don’t go with the flow. I have my own stream of life: D

Plus, it’s hot where I’m from so imagine yourself in full make up and its dreading 35-40 degree C outside. I don’t want to look like im crying black tears, srlsy! Good luck on that!

 

*pardon the grammar hope y’all get my point*

XO,

Tita ❤

Diet is all about…

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Going on a diet is not always food. It’s all about mindset. In my opinion, you can still go on a diet even if you eat lotsa junk food as long as you move or do some activities after eating them.

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My doctor told me to go on a diet. To be honest, I don’t eat that much but I kept on gaining weight and it’s because I don’t move after every meal and because I’m lazy(and I won’t lie about that). Simple movements like a little walk, house cleaning, sweeping/vacuuming the floor will do (or a lil dancing ;)).

Any movement that can make you sweat everyday can help you lose some weight. You may not notice it but your brain is manipulating your body fat (my fat, our fat) by making you think that moving is tiring which leads to laziness.

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Seriously, I’ve tried apple cider vinegar and honey and boy don’t expect it to take its toll right away. Taking those herbal or home remedies still needs proper diet and exercise and oh, mindset J

But honestly, I should start cleaning now *high five*

 

Gotta sweat now!

 

XO